Why Most People Will Never Get What They Want
by Dwayne Gilbert
‘You deserve everything your heart desires. Just as everyone else in the world does. You must believe it though. Not wish it to be so. Not think, "Well, I believe it." But absolutely, whole heartedly, 100% with every ounce of your body know it to be complete truth.’ Dwayne Gilbert
Put simply, most people will never get what they want simply because they do not deserve what they want. This is not to say that in the scheme of life they do not deserve what they want, but instead in their own minds, in their own reality, they do not deserve what they want. Seriously, think about it. How many people do you know who honestly, whole-heartedly, completely believe that they deserve to be wealthy in all areas of their lives. How many people do you know who honestly, deep at heart believe an incredibly powerful and beautiful love. How many people do you know who believe they deserve lots of money, or things, or free time, or anything that can be called wealth. I don't know many.
I am amazed when I listen to people, I mean truly listen, and hear what their opinion is about themselves. You can really learn a lot about people if you truly listen between the words that they use, and often times, I hear most of the people I talk to say that they are not worthy of happiness and wealth. This really makes me sad to hear so often. It is as though a plague has infested the human race, and I really have no idea where these thoughts have come from or how miserable life must be at times to think that way. We all deserve happiness and joy and everything our hearts desire, and no one has the right to tell us any different. You deserve everything you want and desire. You truly do, but now you must learn to believe it.
The world around us will always try to tell us what to believe about this or that and what to believe in and what to believe about ourselves. We are constantly bombarded by advertising that tells us to think this way or that way and that this type of person believes this or that. That will never change. The trick to all this is to become like a rock, an island among ourselves. We must learn to develop our own opinion, especially about ourselves and to believe that opinion with everything you are. The only thing that matters in the end is what you believe about yourself. Now, I know many people out there say that they don't care what others think, and many of you might be saying the same thing, but I bet that some where inside of you there is a little voice that does care about someone’s opinion about you some where. This is not good or bad, and learning to completely ignore others opinions about yourself is not always and easy task. Not at all. What I am saying though is to develop an opinion of yourself that is in and of itself enough for you. An opinion of yourself that is not affected by daily life and thoughts and opinions of others. Of course we want the ones we care about to love us and have a good opinion about us, however, at some point you must weight whether or not your own happiness is more important to you than their opinions or not.
You deserve everything your heart desires. Just as everyone else in the world does. You must believe it though. Not wish it to be so. Not think, "well, I believe it." But absolutely, whole-heartedly, 100% with every ounce of your body know it to be complete truth. You wouldn't question whether or not you can breath if you leave your house. You must believe that you deserve what you want the same way. Without a single question. In fact, if someone were to question whether or not you deserve what you want, your response should be a silly confused look. Just as you would look at someone if they told you the sky was neon green. There must be a place that runs so deep inside of you that it can't be touched that completely believes you deserve what you want. You do deserve it, so begin to open up your heart, and your mind, and your entire being to the fact that you deserve it.
Copyright Dwayne Gilbert
Dwayne Gilbert is the founder of http://www.wealthylifesecrets.com and has been helping people in the area of self-protection and personal development for 10 years. He has authored some of his own books and currently teaches people self-defence and personal development strategies and tactics.
